Advertisement
question

Is it emotionally safe to sleep with multiple partners?

Paul  Hokemeyer, PhD
Paul Hokemeyer, PhD
Marriage & Family Therapy
answer

No. It's not emotionally safe for a number of reasons. First, sleeping with multiple partners is a set up for anger, resentment and jealousy (fear that something you have will be taken away). These emotions break down our self-esteem and make us feel rotten. Second, sex is most fulfilling when it's based on a relationship of trust and intimacy. It's difficult, if not impossible, to have these when you are having sex with multiple partners. Third, multiple partners increase your chances of contracting multiple STDs. This increased risk creates anxiety and regret, both of which are unsafe emotions.

Continue Learning about Sexual Health and Relationships

Sexually transmitted diseases continue to rise in the U.S.
Sexually transmitted diseases continue to rise in the U.S.
The number of some sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) in America hit an all-time high in 2021 during the COVID-19 pandemic, according to the Centers...
Read More
Your top real-life sex questions, answered
Your top real-life sex questions, answered
Having sex is one thing. Talking about it is another, especially if something is interfering with your ability to enjoy sex. In many cultures, people ...
Read More
What is anal play?
Learn more from our experts about what anal play is.
More Answers
7 things you should never do before and after sex
7 things you should never do before and after sex7 things you should never do before and after sex7 things you should never do before and after sex7 things you should never do before and after sex
These little habits can dampen your fun and affect your health. It’s no secret that regular intimacy can benefit your mental and physical health. Amo...
Start Slideshow

Important: This content reflects information from various individuals and organizations and may offer alternative or opposing points of view. It should not be used for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. As always, you should consult with your healthcare provider about your specific health needs.