Getting the Caregiver Support You Need

Why Do Caregivers Need Support?

1 / 8 Why Do Caregivers Need Support?

From changes in family relationships to financial stress, to the sheer amount of work involved, caring for a loved one with a health condition is a challenge. Even the most dedicated caregivers are prone to stress and burnout. Symptoms of caregiver burnout and depression—such as poor concentration, forgetfulness, sleep problems, changes in appetite, excessive drinking, thoughts of death, loss of emotional control, and even neglect or rough treatment of your loved one—can set in if you don't take preventive steps. Here are more ways to get support and avoid caregiver burnout.

Medically reviewed in January 2020.

Watch for Signs of Depression

2 / 8 Watch for Signs of Depression

Leaning on friends or joining a support group can help you cope with everyday caregiver stress—but if depression sets in, you may need more help. Unfortunately, 46% to 59% of caregivers can be described as clinically depressed, raising their risk of heart disease, pain, and other chronic health conditions. Depression can also reduce your ability to be a good caregiver. So getting professional help is important for you and the loved one you're caring for. Effective treatment options for clinical depression include talk therapy and prescription medications. Exercise, stress management, social support, and healthy sleep habits may also be part of a prescribed depression treatment plan.

Call a Caregiver Family Meeting

3 / 8 Call a Caregiver Family Meeting

To avoid feeling overwhelmed or "on your own," hold family meetings. It will take more than one meeting to establish a good caregiving routine, so talk early and often. At meetings, try to focus on current caregiving needs and solutions rather than conflicts. Talk about caregiving in honest, open terms and allow everyone—including your loved one with the health issue—to contribute. Ask your loved one what kind of help he or she needs. Ask other family members what kind of help they can provide and when. Schedule meetings several times a year to keep everyone involved and updated, so that the burden of caregiving won't fall too heavily on one person.

Reach Out for Caregiver Support

4 / 8 Reach Out for Caregiver Support

Many community, religious, and health care organizations offer caregiver support groups and services that can make daily challenges less daunting. You can also find online support groups through websites—such as DailyStrength—where you can meet others interested in sharing their thoughts, concerns, and questions about caregiving. If you feel you would benefit from more intensive counseling or guidance, talk to your doctor about individual and group therapy options. Some employers also offer counseling benefits to help employees deal with emotional stress.

Take a Caregiver's Vacation

5 / 8 Take a Caregiver's Vacation

Taking time away from caregiving responsibilities now and then can reduce stress, prevent caregiver burnout, and make you a better caregiver. "Respite care" provides you with a substitute caregiver to take your place when you need a break. In-home respite care, performed by a healthcare professional, can range from simple companionship for your loved one to in-home nursing services. Another option is an adult daycare center, often located in a local church or community center. Need to get out of town for a few days? Short-term nursing homes can provide care for your loved one while you're away.

Make Healthy Eating and Exercise a Habit

6 / 8 Make Healthy Eating and Exercise a Habit

Caring for a disabled person can raise your risk of heart disease. According to the Nurses' Health Study, women who cared for a disabled spouse for at least nine hours a week were significantly more at risk of having a heart attack or dying from heart disease compared with women who had no caregiving duties. Two powerful ways to reduce your heart disease risk? Eat a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean protein—and work up a daily sweat. According to the American Heart Association, 30 minutes of intense total body exercise can strengthen your heart and your mind.

Relieve Your Own Stress

7 / 8 Relieve Your Own Stress

One of the most important things you can do for yourself and your loved one is to take time everyday to enjoy life and relieve stress. It can be as simple as a 10-minute walk or a long soak in the tub. Not taking time for yourself will make you less productive and can damage your relationship with your loved one. Hold yourself accountable by scheduling short breaks every day at times you know your loved one will be sleeping, eating, or watching their favorite TV show. Ask a friend or family member to cover for you if needed. A consistent schedule will help your loved one become accustomed to your timeouts—so you'll have the privacy you need to de-stress and relax.

Clear Your Head with Meditation

8 / 8 Clear Your Head with Meditation

According to Sharecare expert and geriatric care manager Shelley Webb, meditation can reduce stress and improve mental health by helping caregivers switch off the worries that plague them throughout the day. Meditation can help quiet your mind and allow you to clear your head from all of your daily caregiving responsibilities. Benefits of meditation include fewer headaches, lower blood pressure, less pain, and an improvement in stress-related ailments. A healthier you also means your loved one will receive better care.

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