What should I do if I suspect a student to be suffering from autism?

Joane Goodroe
If you suspect that a student may have autism, it is important to address this difficult situation with the parents.  The word “autism” is frightening to any parent, and it is important to present information in a way that ensures a next step.  Instead of using the word "autism", talk about the types of behaviors that concern you.   For example, a teacher can point out behaviors that are concerning, such as lack of social interaction, and why this is something that should not be ignored.  Then, it is imperative to follow with a statement to encourage them to seek testing so that the child will have access to therapy. Help them see that there are things that can make a difference and that they are not alone.    Focusing on symptoms allows parents to think in terms of treatments instead of being overwhelmed with the diagnosis of autism.       
William Stillman
Health Education

Thank you for your concern. "Suffering" may not be the proper or most respectful term because it makes assumptions about a "pitiable" way of being that may well be untrue. You surely would not want to portray a student's autism as "sufferable" when engaging his family. 

As an educator, you may well feel a professional obligation to do all you can to ensure that a student is given every opportunity for treatment. However, pursuing an autism diagnosis is ultimately a parental decision, and is not something that can be imposed or forced.

If the subject has not yet been broached, you may be unaware of whether the family is already knowledgeable of their child's way of being. They may be exploring it in their own way and in their own time. We may see the urgency in early detection, but many families are in denial or may be scared to consider autism as an option. If you are not gentle and sensitive to the family's needs by meeting them where they're at, you could risk offending or humiliating them.

Ask yourself: How knowledgeable am I about potential autism traits and signs? Have I consulted with the child's school team or school psychologist or evaluator? Could the child experience, instead, dyslexia, reactive attachment disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, or some other issue that may not be autism but still cause for concern? 

My article, "Everyone has Autism," found at, may be one resource to break the ice as an entree into a family discussion about your questions or concerns.

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