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My story: game changer

Updated on October 22, 2024

Recovering from prostate cancer surgery can be a long and difficult process. Chris shares his story and offers tips on how to heal.

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I would say, be more patient than you think you need to be. You may feel good on the outside. It may look OK, but there's still
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a lot going on on the inside. [MUSIC PLAYING]
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As I got older, I just slowly got out of shape. I decided to try a triathlon because I thought
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it would be hard and force me to really focus and start a fitness journey. I went from for a routine physical,
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but I hadn't been in three years. I didn't see the need to go. I had an ego that said, man, you're fine. Look at you.
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You're strong. You can work out. What could be wrong with you? I was diagnosed with prostate cancer when I was 49.
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It was like getting punched in the gut and then kicked in the jaw and smacked in the back of the head with a brick, all at the same time.
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And my urologist said that I was the youngest he had ever diagnosed in his 35-year career. It was a fairly easy decision for me.
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Even though I was scared of the outcomes, I really wanted to live and be healthy, so I decided to have the surgery.
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So recovery was difficult. Training for an Iron Man, which are very long-- they typically take over 12 hours
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to complete-- we become mentally strong to endure that. And I think that training prepared me
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for what I had to go through after surgery. I just remembered your body needs to heal. Just be patient.
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Just practice movement. Nine months later, after the surgery, I tried to do a full Iron Man. I completed it, but my body basically disintegrated.
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So I would say, be more patient than you think you need to be. You may feel good on the outside. It may look OK, but there's still a lot
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that's going on on the inside. My surgeon and my urologist actually both told me, practice Kegels as frequently as you can, sometimes five,
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six times a day in the beginning. You have to use a new set of muscles to hold your bladder, and you've gone through life never using them,
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so they're very weak. This is me speaking personally. Don't be embarrassed about having to wear a diaper for a while, you know? Nobody can see it.
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Only you really know you have it on. That will reduce your anxiety. And the anxiety makes you more nervous and have to use the bathroom more frequently.
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So if you can reduce that, you can calm your whole system down and focus on just recovery and paying attention
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to how your body feels. [MUSIC PLAYING]

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