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My loved one has...prostate cancer

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      Updated on October 25, 2024

      Pam's husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 prostate cancer in 2020 and she’s been his advocate and caregiver ever since.

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      My husband was diagnosed with stage four prostate cancer in 2020. [MUSIC PLAYING]
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      The uncertainty of not knowing what's gonna happen has really changed our life so much.
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      I've always saw myself as an independent woman. And I still do. But the thought of being without my husband really scares me like crazy.
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      We hear that so often, that oh, you got the good cancer. There's nothing good about any cancer. But prostate cancer particularly,
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      it's debilitating to men. It takes away everything from them. My responsibilities for my husband as his caretaker
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      vary from day to day. I take care of everything from helping him get back and forth to the bathroom to fixing all of his meals,
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      making sure that he has all of his vitamins and that he takes the vitamins. I'm there for him. And we do whatever it takes to make him comfortable.
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      When my husband was diagnosed, I self-medicated with food and gained a tremendous amount of weight.
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      It was a coping mechanism for me. And one of the things I have learned is that in order for me to be able to be there for him
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      and to take care of him, I've got to first take care of myself, and really, put some time and energy into making sure that I'm good, too.
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      Being my husband's caretaker, it has affected our friendship, our personal relationship
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      in a positive way. We have become closer. We have become united. It's just been a learning experience
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      to kind of grow as a person, to grow as a couple, and to just continue to figure out
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      ways to make the best of the life that we have. [AUDIO LOGO]

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