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What does a woman experience in a state of semi-arousal during sex?

Ian Kerner, PhD
Sexual Health
After she’s had an orgasm, the blood takes longer to dispel from the genitals, so -- unlike a man -- she’s more than likely going to go into a state of semi-arousal rather than return to a pre-aroused state. In a state of semi-arousal, her responses to your thrusts will be diminished and more relaxed and more conducive to ejaculatory mastery and an overall sense of containment. You can take things slow or fast: You can quickly experience your own orgasm, or work on postponing ejaculation and familiarize yourself with the rhythm of intercourse. It’s possible she will progress from a state of semi-arousal to heightened arousal, and with the capacity to experience multiple orgasms, she will experience her second orgasm as you experience your first.
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