How can I increase my chances of getting pregnant?

There are many steps you can take to help increase your chances of getting pregnant.

  • Ensure that you're a healthy weight. Doing so will help keep your reproductive cycle in balance.
  • Watch what you eat. Eating unhealthfully is a contributing factor to infertility.
  • Stay hydrated. Drink enough water so that your urine is yellow.
  • Cut caffeine. High caffeine levels interfere with conception.
  • Visit your dentist. Gum disease is linked to underweight and premature babies.
  • Meet with your ob-gyn: Speak with your doctor about your health status. She or he can suggest any lifestyle changes you need to make that can help you get pregnant.
  • Manage stress. Since trying to conceive can be stressful, aim to manage and reduce tension and anxiety.
  • Stop drinking and smoking. Ditch both habits for the sake of your health and your baby's health, too.
  • Chart your basal body temperature. The day after you ovulate, your basal body temperature (BBT) will rise 0.4 to 1.0 degree and will stay elevated until your next period.
  • Assess your cervical mucus. You're most fertile when your mucus resembles egg whites, looking and feeling stretchy and clear.
  • Use an ovulation calendar. A fertility calculator or calendar can help you figure out the length of your cycle and the day of the month when you're most fertile.
  • Try an ovulation kit. An over-the-counter ovulation test can determine when you're ovulating.
  • Exercise within reason. It's fine to get in some moderate activity. However, engaging in strenuous, vigorous and extreme exercise might impact your menstrual cycle, leading to infertility.
  • Inspect your medicine cabinet. Some prescription medications may be unsafe during pregnancy or make it more difficult to get pregnant.
  • Ditch the lube. Some lubricants can make sperm more likely to die before they reach the egg. Try a lubricant that is sperm-friendly or use canola oil.
  • Load up on vitamins. Ask your ob-gyn which over-the-counter prenatal vitamin you need or if you should take a prescription prenatal vitamin.
  • Have a lot of sex. Some experts say that when you're trying to conceive, you should have sex once a day, every other day, especially when you're most fertile right before and after ovulation.
  • Beware of what you do after sex. A few things to avoid after sex include saunas, long runs, hot tubs or other activities that raise your body temperature.

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Dr. Robert W. Chalmers, MD
OBGYN (Obstetrician & Gynecologist)

Patients will often ask me, "What should I do when I'm trying to get pregnant, when I'm trying to start a family?" "How do I maximize my chances of conceiving?" I usually recommend to them that they take a multivitamin that contains folic acid. That helps give them all the nutrients that they need in order to be healthy and also to help support a developing baby.

I also recommend that the patients keep a calendar of their menstrual cycle, so if they do have trouble conceiving, we can take a look at that calendar and figure out where the problems may be occurring.

I usually also recommend that if patients have other medical conditions, they make sure that those are under control. So if they have diabetes, they should see their primary-care manager and make sure that is well controlled.

The other issue that comes up frequently with fertility is related to weight. There is definitely an ideal weight for women when it comes to conceiving. If they're underweight, oftentimes their menstrual cycles will cease—they're usually not fertile during that time. If they're overweight, similar things can occur with irregular menstrual cycles and inability to conceive. Often, all that many women need is appropriate counseling about nutrition and exercise therapy in order to help them start their family.

In most situations two people achieve pregnancy, and both should optimize their health prior to attempting conception. Many studies indicate that the following advice will improve a couple's chance of conceiving:

  1. The greatest chance of conception follows intercourse during the fertile time of a woman's cycle. For most women, the fertile time typically includes the day of ovulation and a few days preceding ovulation. This portion of the cycle can be prospectively identified at home using urine LH testing. Urine LH test kits, also called "ovulation predictor kits" are available over-the-counter in pharmacies. Urine LH increases one to two days before ovulation.
  2. Women and men attempting conception should try to get their body mass index (a measure of height and weight) into the healthy range, typically regarded as 20 to 25 kg/m2. For men and women, being too thin or too heavy reduces the chance of conception.
  3. Women and men should stop smoking prior to attempting conception. Cigarette smoke contains toxins that interfere with the development of the egg, sperm and the process of conception.
  4. Women should reduce their caffeine intake to no more than two cups of coffee daily, or no more than 250 mg of caffeine daily. Caffeine intake greater than five cups daily can increase the risk of miscarriage.
  5. Women with depression or significant anxiety may want to address these symptoms before attempting conception. Studies suggest that optimal mental health improves fertility.
  6. Women should reduce their alcohol intake to no more than four standardized drinks per week (a standardized drink is 12 ounces of beer, 5 ounces of wine or 1 ounce of spirits).
  7. Women planning conception should start taking folic acid, approximately 800 micrograms daily. This reduces the risk of a specific birth defect of the nervous system—neural tube defect.
Dr. Mehmet Oz, MD
Cardiologist (Heart Specialist)

What's the best sex position for fertilization? Missionary? Reverse cowgirl? While the data is inconclusive that any sex position is better than another, it does seem that your odds go up with the missionary position and with the woman remaining on her back for 15 minutes after the man ejaculates, which will increase the chance that the sperm will make it upstream.

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