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What should I avoid telling a person with depression?

Sadly, we still view depression as something that a person can "control" -- and they often get feedback like "Get over it," "Cheer up," "Toughen up," or "Man up." A person with depression often already feels ineffectual; hearing this can often just push them deeper into the shadows and less willing or able to seek help.

Can you imagine if someone just got a diagnosis of cancer, or multiple sclerosis (MS), or diabetes and were told to "Get over it"?

Research is clear that untreated depression can lead to significant worsening of symptoms, greater occupational and social impairment, and poorer treatment outcomes. The stigma a person feels when they are told they should "Just get over it" may hamper them from seeking therapy.

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