It is important to understand that this condition (ADHD) is experienced in various degrees, and in slightly different ways, by different individuals. Some people are more hyper than others; while some are not hyperactive, but are easily distracted and are disorganized.
In this day and age when there seems to be a pill to cure just about anything, many people with this problem seek a prescription for a medication that might have seen advertised on TV. Although there is benefit from medication in many cases, there are also side effects to medications that might be unpleasant. Everyone is different, and each person must make an informed decision, in consultation with a trusted medical professional, before embarking on a plan of medical treatment.
However, in just about every instance of an adult with ADHD, there is a need for others in the immediate family to understand the particular "quirks" of their loved one, and to interact with him or her in ways that are helpful and supportive. For instance, it is recommended to get the attention of the ADHD individual before beginning to speak about anything. That will avoid the exasperation of feeling as if you are being ignored. Little adjustments like this can improve interpersonal relationships and bring a healthier and more peaceful atmosphere into the home.
