What Are Signs That Stress Is Taking a Toll on My Marriage?

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When people are under chronic stress certain things happen, their sleep becomes disturbed, their skin doesn't look as bright and clear, they don't have as much memory, short term memory where they begin to lose their keys and forget where to do and they begin to just lose energy we call it libidinal energy.

That's because we need to be tethered to another person in a safe and secure way in order to feel courageous, energetic, safe and we can go out and do the things we ordinarily wouldn't be able to do. So people in a stressful marriage are not going to be as healthy if it really lasts a long time they're not going to be as nice, they're not going to live as long and they're going to suffer more illnesses as a result of the chronic stress between these two people.