What Do Men Want In the Bedroom?

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And Tanya and Bobbi who have never let their husbands see them naked. I got some baby steps that can help these couples with some of the problems they are facing. So the first step, the first step is to understand what your husband is really seeing, I heard both these wonderful men say something, that is very different from what each of you are hearing.

I mean, really different in fact many of you are saying, I think I'm saying those things and no one's hearing me so what's the baby step? How frustrating is that for your partner, he's telling you how beautiful you are and it hurts not to have you feel that and believe that but there's two things you have to understand about men and you can tell if I'm right.

 I'm sure you are.  Is that first of all, how you see women all the time, we all know women like this who don't need at all the standard measures of what a beautiful woman is that they have men falling all over them all the time it's not because of how you look it's because what men want in the bedroom, yes, frequency That's right but most importantly they want you to be having a good time and they want you to feel confident.

That is a huge, huge part of their sexual satisfaction, huge, okay. So that's the first thing to understand. The second thing is that what we consider women in our society consider beautiful or the ideal shape is significantly smaller than what men consider to be the ideal shape and this comes up again and again and in study after study and I did a little experiment with these guys before the show and you can do this at home as well but I showed them a scale of women's body types.

Do we have it? [xx] up here, so you can see it right there. OK, so you can see the scale from tiny winy all the way up to nine, and most women well, if you ask them what the ideal shape of a woman would be, they'll like say, in the 1, 2, 3 area maybe 4. And the men would more to in the 5 to 6, 7 area.

Men like a little junk in the trunk, they like the curves, right? Also right, and that, we actually did this. We did this, so let's show it because.