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- Psychology
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- Good In Bed
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What is the honeymoon phase of a relationship?
The honeymoon phase is made of attachment—the wildly powerful biological experience we tend to call “falling in love.” It can last, oh, maybe about 4 years, give or take. That i...
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Do men and women usually orgasm at the same time?
While you might both orgasm at the same time, it's more likely that one of you will be first. Keep this in mind when it comes to dealing with premature ejaculation. If that's you, don't sweat...
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Why do some penises curve?
The shaft of the penis is actually made of three different chambers: one called the corpus spongiosum and two called the corpora cavernosa. If one of those chambers is longer than the others, ...
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What should I do if my partner routinely loses his erection?
If your partner routinely loses his erection, remember firstly that sexual responsiveness is a combination of hitting the gas (giving good stimulation through all sensory modalities, includin...
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What happens when women take Viagra?
When a woman takes Viagra, she increases blood flow to her erectile tissues. Due to the non-congruence of women’s physiological sexual response with their perceived/emotional sexual res...
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How do I know if an open relationship is right for me?
In general, polyamory can work given a great deal of commitment, time, skill, trust and communication. Many people lack adequate quantities of those commodities and thus the complexities inhe...
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Why do we fall for people who are bad for us?
Not everyone falls for people who are bad for them. And those of us who do can learn to fall for people who are good for us. Early in our relationship lives, we fall for people who replicate o...
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Why do people cry after orgasm?
People cry with orgasms for lots of reasons, and not just with their first. Deeply loving orgasms -- orgasms that have involved a lot of build up, orgasms that function as a stress reliever, ...
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Do women cry after their first orgasm?
Sure. If you watch Betty Dodson’s videos you’ll see that first orgasms are intensely personal experiences that are often accompanied by cathartic laughter or tears -- or both.
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How does the setting matter when it comes to foreplay?
Our perception of sensation is context-dependent. You may have had the experience of being tickled when you’re in a playful mood and you get all giggly and it’s sweet and fun. And you m...
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What should I do if my partner doesn't want sex but still masturbates?
Both women and men may want to masturbate but not want sex because having interest in sex is not the same as having interest in having an orgasm. The nice thing about masturbation or a vibrat...
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Why do women respond to a wide range of sexual stimuli?
Women respond to a wide range of stimuli for both medical and speculative reasons. Protection. The lubrication of the vagina functions to minimize friction associated with penetration. Reduc...
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How can I improve my body image to make sex more satisfying?
To cope with body image issues and improve your sexual satisfaction, start with what I think of as the four pillars of physical wellbeing: Physical activity. Not because you’ll lose fat...
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What can I do to increase my sex drive?
If you feel that your desire is low -- i.e., you don’t often just WANT sex, out of the blue or with only a little incentive -- try this: Instead of aiming to desire sex, aim to be will...
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How can a woman learn to have an orgasm?
Orgasm difficulties in college age women are associated with the Sexual Inhibition System, or SIS, responding to too many things. If your SIS has learned to put on the brakes in respons...
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