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How can porn films help me deal with premature ejaculation?

Ian Kerner, PhD
Sexual Health

For most couples dealing with premature ejaculation (PE) (and, let’s face it, for most couples, period), the over-the-top scenarios we see in porn are impractical. But that doesn’t mean we can’t borrow some ideas. One concept in porn films helpful to men with PE is that of a script. Just as porn stars are really acting out a predetermined fantasy, you can use sex scripts to help control the action in your bedroom.

Of course, you don’t actually write up scenes and dialogue. But predictability can be a real boon to guys with PE. A little advance planning helps you stay in control and know what’s, um, coming next. Think about what works for you ahead of time.

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