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What should I do if my partner and I haven’t had sex in a while?

Ian Kerner, PhD
Sexual Health
Try it, even if you don’t feel like it. Take care of yourselves: Minimize stress, exercise, eat right, and get adequate sleep, so you feel your best. Also, hug your way to more desire. Studies show a 20-second hug raises oxytocin, the hormone that facilitates a sense of connection.

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