Why are most nice girls found to be perfectionists?

Karen R Koenig
Because of your ongoing quest to be all things to all people, never disappoint, and always do everything to a tee, there’s a good chance that your lips have difficulty shaping no. Oddly, yes just rolls off your tongue. To many nice girls, saying no to requests and demands is impossible because it implies that they’re not good enough, are too weak or lazy or inadequate or, worse, are selfish and want to do something for themselves rather than somebody else. No matter how many times you’re told that striving for perfection is a fruitless, thankless endeavor, your automatic pilot takes over and you shoot for the stars.

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