How can I overdo niceness at work?

Karen R Koenig
There are a host of ways you can overdo niceness at work, almost all of which involve a constitutional inability to pronounce audibly the simplest of monosyllabic words: “no.” Sometimes you’d swear you were thinking no, and are stunned when yes inexplicably pops out of your mouth. Other times, you find yourself vigorously nodding before someone has even finished making a request or demand. Fortunately, the book Nice Girls Finish Fat will give you the tools you need to outgrow those self- destructive urges.

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