How can I create a safe and healthy family bed?

If you are thinking about creating a family bed, keep these tips in mind:
  • Not before one. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends against co-sleeping with children under the age of 1 because of a risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome, or SIDS.
  • Parents should be on the same page. It’s important that both adult partners are fully in agreement with the decision to share your bed with their child.
  • Routine matters. Creating a soothing, relaxing before-bed routine is critical to helping your child develop strong sleep habits. It’s also important for adults. A family bed shouldn’t mean a routine-less bedtime. Consistency is key to helping your children -- and yourselves -- get the sleep you need.
  • Avoid alcohol. Alcohol consumption on your part increases the risk of injuries to your child during the night. If you’ve been drinking, you should not share a bed with your child.
  • Don’t sacrifice sex. One of the risks of co-sleeping for the adults is that it can wreak havoc on your sex life. Be sure to continue to make intimacy with your mate a priority.
  • Stay attentive to sleep issues. If anyone begins having difficulty sleeping -- parent or child -- it may be time to rethink the co-sleeping arrangement.

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