What are some ways to deal with grief?

The National Mental Health Association offers the following guidelines for living with grief:
  • Seek out caring people. Friends, relatives, and people in support groups may understand your feelings.
  • Express your feelings. Talk. It will help you through the grieving process.
  • Take care of your health. Eat right and stay well rested. Do not self-medicate by drinking alcohol or taking medication.
  • Accept that life is for the living. It will take effort to move beyond the past.
  • Postpone major life changes. Try not to make any significant life changes (e.g., moving, remarrying, having another child) until you have adjusted.
  • Be patient. It may take months to years to accept the loss.
  • Seek outside help when necessary. The best thing that you can do for yourself when your grief is severe is to seek professional help.

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