How can I get my teen to be healthy?

Mr. Donovan Green
Athletic Training
Getting healthy together is always the best step. You cannot force them to workout. Instead opt for more fun outdoor activities such as playing sports or hiking with the family. The idea is to keep them stimulated by doing the things they love, not by doing things they hate. Keep it FUN and watch their health improve in no time. Oh yeah....Don't forget to eat healthy together, as well, parents.
Brooke Randolph
Marriage & Family Therapy
Your teen or tween may not have the perspective yet to recognize what they need to do or not to do to get healthy and/or avoid falling into unhealthy habits. As a caring, involved parent, you want to provide guidance, but you don't know what to say or how to get him or her to listen. Your child is probably listening to you less and less as he or she is turning more to the guidance of peers. Luckily, modeling has been shown to be a very powerful way of shaping your child's behavior. They will do what you do more than they will do what you say.

It is tempting to share the wisdom of your age and life experience with your kids, but they won't believe that it is wise and applicable to their lives unless they believe you understand them and their daily activities and interests. Before you say anything, make sure you are listening to and asking about their daily lives and the people with whom they surround themselves. Let them teach you a thing or two and they may be more open to what you want to teach them.

Keep the message positive. Teens who want to assert their independence, be respected, and believe they are nearly adults will reject negative messages even more than the average citizen. Telling them to "not" do something, only makes them want to do it more (and doesn't it work the same way for you too?). Positive reinforcement is always a good way to encourage more of a behavior that you appreciate. The other danger of negativity is that teens and tweens are very self-conscious. Encourage self-esteem in your child by empowering him or her, providing information and support, and always using positive language.

Continue Learning about Fitness

How to Prevent Winter Falls
How to Prevent Winter Falls
Thanksgiving Day Turkey Trots get thousands of folks from Maine to Southern California and scores of places in between (Franklin, TN; Tallahassee, FL;...
Read More
Why should I try new sports in middle age?
If you're middle-aged, it's not too late to try a new sport, whether it's one that was a childhood d...
More Answers
Your Exercise Wake-Up Call
Your Exercise Wake-Up CallYour Exercise Wake-Up CallYour Exercise Wake-Up CallYour Exercise Wake-Up Call
Skipping a regular workout can put you at risk for serious health problems, including cancer and Alzheimer’s disease. Learn how exercise protects your...
Start Slideshow
Exercises for Back-Pain Relief
Exercises for Back-Pain Relief

Important: This content reflects information from various individuals and organizations and may offer alternative or opposing points of view. It should not be used for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. As always, you should consult with your healthcare provider about your specific health needs.