What should I avoid doing if a loved one has depression?

It's hard to see someone you care about going through depression. Here are a few don'ts:
  • Don't take your loved one's depression personally. You didn't cause it. You can't cure it. If a depressed person says something hurtful, keep in mind that they're suffering. They're prone to saying things they don't truly mean.
  • Don't ignore remarks about suicide or signs of worsening depression. Help your loved one by calling a doctor for advice.
  • Don't try to nag someone into feeling better. The more you tell someone what they should be doing, the worse they'll feel. Instead, give affection, encouragement, and compliments.
  • Don't do too much for your loved one. When someone's depressed, their self-esteem takes a nosedive. So don't "help" too much or take over too many responsibilities for them. If you do, they'll feel even more unproductive.
  • Don't let your loved one's illness consume you. No one will be helped if you become overwhelmed. Respect and value your own mental health first. You'll be a good model.

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