How can I reach orgasm if my partner has premature ejaculation?

Madeleine M. Castellanos, MD on behalf of Good In Bed

Psychiatry

There's a whole world of sexual activities that have nothing to do with when a guy ejaculates -- or even with his erection. A man with premature ejaculation (PE) can bring you to experience pleasure or orgasm before or after intercourse with oral sex, manual stimulation, or a sex toy. If you prefer to orgasm during intercourse, try some vibrator play or oral sex first to get close to orgasm, then finish with intercourse, knowing it won't last as long.

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A satisfying sex life doesn't require orgasm, but having an orgasm has its own rewards. Knowing your body and what gives you sexual pleasure can help you communicate your needs to your partner, enhancing sexual intimacy and helping you to climax. Sometimes delayed ejaculation, or premature ejaculation, may affect the male orgasm. Being open with your partner and your doctor can help solve any sexual problems. Learn more about achieving orgasm with expert advice from Sharecare.

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