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How can I have an orgasm during sex?

Debby Herbenick
Sexual Health
First, focus on the pleasure of sex, not orgasm as a goal, which adds anxiety. That said, try touching your clitoris during intercourse, or ask your partner to wear a vibrating C-ring around the base of his penis. An adaptation of the missionary position called the coital alignment technique also helps because it uses the man’s pelvic bone to massage the clitoris.

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