What should I do if a family member is a problem gambler?

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  1. Dr. Howard Shaffer
     
    Dr. Howard Shaffer answered:
    The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration offers a Problem Gambling Toolkit, which offers the following advice for family members of problem gamblers:
    • Take the gambler's name off all credit cards.
    • Deposit the gambler's paycheck into an account in your name only, and agree to a weekly cash budget.
    • Call creditors, explain the gambler's problem, and promise to provide a restitution plan within 45 days.
    If gambling continues:
    • Take your name off any joint credit cards and bank accounts.
    • Alert all creditors and ask them not to extend any more credit to the gambler.
    • Assume payment of household bills, if possible.
    • Open a separate safe-deposit box to store valuables that the gambler might sell for cash.
    • Identify income and assets, establish a spending plan, and shift control of the finances to a nongambler.
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