How can a chronic illness affect a person's sex life?

When you're first confronted with an illness, things may look bleak. But many people are able to resume a satisfying sex life after an initial adjustment phase. The first step to overcoming these challenges is to investigate the potential effects of the disease and its treatment on your sex life. But it is also important to discuss these issues with a healthcare provider.

Keep in mind, too, that there are many ways to maintain physical intimacy. Some couples find that they can have a satisfying relationship without intercourse. However, even in the absence of sexual contact, preserving other forms of affection -- such as hand-holding and cuddling -- is crucial for maintaining a healthy, positive relationship.

Chronic medical conditions, such as arthritis, heart disease, diabetes, and cancer, can affect a person's ability or desire to be sexually active. It's difficult for someone to feel sexy when he or she is in constant pain, feels sick or weak, or is recovering from surgery.

Also, some medications affect sexual functioning. Antidepressants, antihistamines, chemotherapy, and drug treatments for high blood pressure may contribute to erectile dysfunction in men and reduce sexual desire and increase vaginal dryness in women.

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