What can I do to let my child feel comfortable with other kids?

Here is a behavior makeover that helps shyer children feel more comfortable in social settings.

First know that shy children will cling a little more and need more time sizing things up and feeling more comfortable. So don't push, but give your child a bit more time in a social setting and then suggest he walk towards one child instead of a group

Popular kids are most likely to use two skills in group settings: eye contact and smiling. Both make them appear more confident and likeable. You can reinforce those skills from an early age. What a beautiful smile.. Remember, always look at the color of the talker's eyes;

Before your child goes on any party outing, rehearse the first thing your child can do when he arrives: like saying hi to the parent, shaking someone's hand, or giving a present to the birthday boy. It will help reduce his anxiety so he feels more comfortable.

Remember your goal is not to change your little introvert into an extrovert. Personality temperaments are mostly genetic. What you should be doing is to help your child feel more comfortable in social settings.

You can find more behavior makeover tips in the book, No More Misbehavin' Whatever you try remember to consistently use the method until you do get the change you want.