A common dilemma for caregivers of people with multiple sclerosis (MS) who are also spouses is how to transition from one role to the other. When you're helping a loved one with daily activities such as bathing, dressing, or walking, it can be confusing to then see them as a lover or sexual being.
Frequently, the individual who requires a great deal of physical care falls into a dependent role and the caregiver does become like a parent. This can cause both partners to experience sexual confusion. Caregivers, particularly men, may fear hurting their partner or making their symptoms worse during love-making so they avoid making sexual overtures in an effort to "protect" their loved one. These issues need to be discussed and worked through.
A common dilemma for caregivers of people with multiple sclerosis
(MS) who are also spouses is how to transition from one role to the
other. When you're helping a loved one with daily activities such
as bathing, dressing, or walking, it can...
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Multiple Sclerosis Foundation answered:A common dilemma for caregivers of people with multiple sclerosis (MS) who are also spouses is how to transition from one role to the other. When you're helping a loved one with daily activities such as bathing, dressing, or walking, it can be confusing to then see them as a lover or sexual being.
