For most of us, after an initial shock wears off, the mind tries to
raise its old defenses, but often they don't work anymore. The
impact of stress is too great; the emotions welling up refuse to be
pushed down again. When you find that you have no defense against
your own fear, you begin to feel vulnerable. In many ways it is
healthy to feel vulnerable. It shows that you are not cut off,
either from yourself or others. But the feeling of helplessness is
extremely difficult to live with. This alone can raise dread, and
the mind struggles to regain control.
For most of us, after an initial shock wears off, the mind tries to
raise its old defenses, but often they don't work anymore. The
impact of stress is too great; the emotions welling up refuse to be
pushed down again. When you find that you have no...
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