The kids are asleep, tomorrow’s lunches are packed, and you’ve finally got a few moments to yourself. What do you do with that time? If you’re like many parents, you do anything but focus on each other. Instead, you tackle the sink full of dishes, flop onto the couch for some Daily Show, or fire up Facebook for a game of Farmville. We all need to blow off steam at the end of a long day. Why not blow it off together? Make sex a priority by having it first, then tending to chores, mindless entertainment, or -- better yet -- sleep.