STEP 1 – Teach your children about the family culture in which you live. “In our family we…”
STEP 2 – Write out all the positive behaviors you see in your home for 72 hours. This will be the “lake” in which your children fish when they need to find a more positive behavior. “I saw”
Someone help clear the table.
Put their toys back.
Put their laundry in the basket.
Offer to help out.
STEP 3 – Lift one another up. Comment on what your family members are doing well and ask for more of it.